skatergrrrl
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what would you do?

Thanks guys!

Posted 9 years ago
oreo1
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ok well as a teen I think it is the worst thing you can do is too stop some one from seeing some one unless it is exterme and you are scared your daughter will die
my mom mady me stop all contact with my ex bf but that was because he was extermily abusive as in he beat me and he raped me like evry second day and it went on for 3 months but I thought I was in love with him but I hated him at the same time and he told me if I left him he would kill him self the last night we were to gether he tride to slit his wrists in front of me but yea there were so many people that wanted to beat the shit out of him but didnt out of respect for my father but now that my dad knows what all was going on he wants to beat the shit out of him along with my bf and all my dads freinds well sorry for the long answer but I do not think that you should make your daughter stop talk and hang out with some one unless you are there 24/ 7 with her or shes just going to go behind your back I have lots of freinds that arnt alowed to date or hang out with some one but they still do the only way my mom kept me away from my ex is that I wasnt allowed to go to school or allowed to go out and she was there 24/7 because I was to menataly unstable but yea thats just my thoughts

Posted 9 years ago
skatergrrrl
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thanks oreo!

Posted 9 years ago
oreo1
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I realy dont thinks its all that bad scince my freinds and me joke about stealing cars and we actualy go into the parkin lots to see what car we want and stuff like that but just because we do all that doesnt mean we would actualy do it I would never steal any thing were just joking around and having fun

Posted 9 years ago
swhalen
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I may be old fashioned but at 14 it is a bit much.  It sounds like Colin may have head on straight (at least for the first bunch of messages).  Talk and leave doors open.  If there is a respectful good relationship, your child will make the right decisions.  I do think that it is hard to ask a teen not to talk with someone anymore...it really depends on your relationship. 
Communication is key!!!  Hope that makes sense.

Posted 9 years ago
skatergrrrl
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thanks

Posted 9 years ago
Nona
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I want to know how old all of you are before you make any judgements.

Posted 9 years ago
Nona
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I think the parents should make the child aware they saw the conversation. Then discuss all the things in it. Sex, flirting, cursing, porno and say "if you are comfortable talking to your friends like this, we expect you to discuss those things with us, too." I might wake her up into realizing that she isn't ready at 14 for those things. And yes, it is that bad.

Posted 9 years ago
shoppingchick
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HI AS A MOTHER MINE ARE 17 AND 19 ,I WOULD NOT BE THAT WORRIED ,WAS IT ON MY SPACE CAUSE THEY FLIRT AND SAY STUFF THEY DON'T MEAN ,TOO LOOK COOL ESPECIALLY IF THEY GO TO SCHOOL TOGETHER ,DOES SHE KNOW YOU READ IT ,IF SHE DOES SHE WILL BE REALLY MAD ,FROM MY EXPERIENCE 14 FOR A GIRL IS A REALLY HARD AGE AND IF YOU TRY AND STOP HER SEEING HER FRIEND ,SHE WILL PROBABLY JUST GO BEHIND YOUR BACK AND SEE THEM ANYWAY ,JUST WATCH HER ,SEE IF ANYTHING CHANGES ,EG LOOKING SEXIER ,WEARING MAKEUP ,GOING TO DIFFERENT PEOPLES HOUSES OR WANTING TO GO TO PARTIES AT NIGHT THAT DON'T EXIST ,WHERE THEY JUST HANG OUT AND GET UP TO STUFF ,JUST WATCH AND LISTEN FOR NOW AND DON'T GET CAUGHT LOOKING AT HER MESSAGES CAUSE SHE COULD GO BESEK AND SHE WILL THINK YOU DON'T TRUST HER ,ASK HER TO INVITE SOME FRIENDS OVER ON FRIDAY OR SATURDAY NIGHT AND OBSERVE THEM ,GOOD LUCK ,IF YOU WANT TO TALK MORE ,EMAIL ME AT <!-- e --><a href="mailto:JAMCAT@TPG.COM.AU">JAMCAT@TPG.COM.AU</a><!-- e --> XO

Posted 9 years ago

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